7 Signs You’re Not Introvert or Extrovert — But Something More
Intro: More Than Just Labels People love to put others in neat boxes: introvert, extrovert, ambivert. But what if none of those labels fully capture you? What if you don’t feel like a classic introvert or extrovert — yet people still misread you as boring just because you’re not loud all the time? That’s where […]
Sex Before Marriage: 3 Reasons Marriage Won’t Fix Lust
You’re single. You’re horny. You’re trying to do the “right” thing — but the days are long, and the nights are longer.No girlfriend. No sex before marriage. And yet your body? Still burning. So what now? That’s the part no one really talks about. Not the preachers. Not your boys. Not even your pastor, unless […]
Loving a Girl With Childhood Trauma: What You Must Know
You’re Not Just Dating Her — You’re Dating Her Past When you love a girl with childhood trauma, you’re not only dating who she is today — you’re meeting the echoes of her past. You’ll bump into: 👉 According to the CDC, 1 in 4 girls experience sexual abuse before 18, and nearly 2 in […]
7 Red Flags When Lending to Friends Who Never Pay Back
Lending to friends sounds like loyalty—but in reality, it often becomes a silent trap. First, they beg. Then they delay. Then they ghost you. This isn’t just about one person forgetting. A Finder survey shows 35% of people who lend to friends never get their money back. That’s not bad luck—that’s a pattern. This article […]
7 Proven Ways to Make Lazy Siblings Responsible Fast
I once couldn’t get through to my younger sis after university.She insisted on a particular major and I didn’t impose. Instead, I worked around her desires and interests. Using AI, I found flexible courses, and every time we spoke she became more and more invested. She didn’t change her mind immediately, but she began to […]
The Meaning of Dreams: 5 Ways to Decode Hidden Symbols
You’re back in your childhood home.The air feels thick. A broom leans against the wall — the same spot it’s always been. You glance at it twice because something feels… off. In the dream, it’s just a broom.When you wake up, you realize it wasn’t a broom at all. It was an affliction, wrapped in […]
5 Hidden Ways Spiritual Warfare & Territorial Spirits Delay You
Ever wondered why life feels delayed no matter how hard you push? You fix one issue, another pops up. You pray, hustle, or network for an open door, yet it feels like something unseen keeps shutting you out. Some call it bad luck. Others call it systemic oppression. In spiritual terms, these are territorial spirits […]
7 Powerful Truths About Boys Who Don’t Chase & Girls Who Do
(Fair Enough… Let’s Talk) The Boys Who Don’t Chase You know the type.The boys who don’t chase are the ones who never double-text.They might drop a clean line, maybe a sarcastic jab — “Fair enough, Madam” — then disappear like they’ve got better things to do. If you text them less, they’ll slow down too. […]
What High-Value Men & Women Do After a Date (and Why It Matters)
The Real-Life Moment with High-Value Men and Women “She hasn’t even opened my message…” That’s what ran through my head after a date that felt perfect. Conversation smooth, laughter natural, the vibe was real. But now? Silence. Do I double-text?Do I call “just to check”?Or do I wait and hope? On the other side, she’s […]
Crush for Street? 3 Reasons Abeg Face Your Hustle
The Street Reality You dey waka for town—maybe Bonaberi o UB junction, or campus in Yaoundé—then boom, e happen.The smile. The curves. The fresh haircut.Your exact crush type. Before you know it, your mind don travel. You dey imagine hug, kiss, even romance. But wait—are you really going to talk to that person? Or na […]